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Mar 08
Last Friday was a strange day for me. It started with me posting an answer on LinkedIn… “what are complex, advanced or high level selling skills”… and part of the problem with this question is that people will have different definitions of those terms… without a consensus of definition, the answer may look strange… I finished my response, posted it and left the office…. so far, so good… nothing strange to report.
I then left to catch a train to London. I hate travelling on public transport… especially when busy… our train system is designed to carry midgets… a bank of seats looks like 3, but only room for 2 normal or 3 small people… I’m not small… so I buy a first class ticket… more cost, but more room… and I keep my sanity… small price to pay. I bought my expensive ticket… that has just increased in price by more than double the rate of inflation… when I met a good friend of mine on the platform… so we travelled up together in standard class… bagged a 3 seater and I was not budging up for anyone… I lost out on paying for first class, but picked up a number of possible leads… my friend is well connected!
As I got off the train I had a text message from an old colleague who I was supposed to be meeting in London… he called off the meeting as he needed to go and see a customer… very noble… customer comes first and all that stuff… doesn’t matter that he wasted my time… my time is expendable!
So, not a good start… I travelled across London to my first appointment… a collaboration meeting with another training company… meeting was for 11am… I hate being late, I arrived on time… we were meeting at a business club… I called my contact on the mobile to make sure he was there… he wasn’t… he thought the meeting was for 1pm… he apologised, said he was making his way across now and would be 45 mins late… I should call his partner as he was also going to be at the meeting… I called… no answer, left a message and wondered off to find a coffee shop… severely disappointed that others don’t respect my time.
I found the shop, got a nice cup of steaming coffee and settled down with a book that I’m reviewing for Ford Harding – the 2nd edition of Rain Making… just got settled and started on sipping the hot stuff and got a call from the other chap… he was in the club all the time… got there at 10:30… if only I had gone in!… so packed up, dumped the coffee and made my way back.
Got to the club…settled down and started general discussion… biding our time before the other chap arrives. Chit chat on families over… other chap nowhere to be seen and so we made a start… to say it initially did not go well is an understatement and it all centred around the phrase Account Management. His definition of account management and my definition were completely different… I’m obviously right… I have numerous books on the subject… but this didn’t help because in his eyes he was right and to prove it, he was going to ask his colleague to confirm, when he arrived,… without prompting!
So we sat waiting for reinforcements… I was going to be outnumbered 2 to 1, but I had size and righteousness on my side! Colleague arrived at 12:30… we had important things to sort out… just as well my second appointment for 1pm was cancelled because I would have had to send him a text saying I could not make after all… I’m sure he would have been fine with the short notice cancellation… funny how things work out.
After bombarding the enemy with sure fire argument and taking return hits I was mentally wounded in the cross fire but came out the other side… alive and with a mention in dispatches for taking on the enemy while being heavily outnumbered.
We have patched up our differences… made friends… and will be progressing… albeit with a little caution making sure we tread carefully. I had high hopes for this relationship… and hopefully it will succeed, but I did lose my rose tinted glasses in the fight… but, then that was not such a loss.
I arrived home later than anticipated, still licking my wounds, and waiting for me on my email was a list of those high powered contacts from my very good friend who doesn’t like paying too much for travelling… I was feeling better already!
To summarise last Friday… started with explaining that a different understanding of a common phrase can lead to misunderstanding… paid for first class travel and went coach class… was stood up for an appointment at short notice… didn’t like it… turned up for first meeting, but no one there, bought a coffee, but no time to drink it… got into a fight over misunderstanding of a common phrase… thanked my guardian angle for arranging the cancellation of second meeting… negotiated a peace settlement… lost my rose tinted glasses… received a list of high powered leads with personal recommendations… and now working on making most of peace settlement… strange day!